A platonic relationship is a friendship between two people who are not attracted to each other sexually or romantically. In platonic relationships, especially between opposite sexes, it's common for lines to blur when one partner develops feelings for the other. But this isn't to say that they don't work. It can work perfectly as long as there is mutual understanding.

Types of platonic relationships include:


This is a close but non-sexual relationship between two men.


This is a close, homosocial female bonding relationship that extends beyond friendship and is characterized by a high level of emotional intimacy.


It's non-sexual relationship between colleagues or co-workers.

Although there is no intimate or romantic benefit in a platonic relationship, it provides other advantages. Here are some of them.

Emotional and mental health support

According to research, having love and support from those around you can have significant health benefits. Your platonic friendship's support can help you avoid disease, boost your immunity, and reduce your chances of depression and anxiety.

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Creates trust

A platonic relationship teaches you to trust others. You learn to open up as you get to know other people. Because there are no romantic feelings involved, one can fully express themselves without fear of being judged.

A feeling of belonging

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Because of the deeper connection formed through nurturing the relationship, being in a platonic relationship provides a sense of belonging. You can interact with others who share your beliefs and interests.

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Maintain a healthy relationship

You can learn communication, compromise, and boundaries, which will be essential in maintaining a healthy romantic relationship. Some platonic friendships may result in romantic relationships between individuals, as they have already established a connection.

Less stress

A platonic relationship is more about supporting and caring for each other rather than physical appearance. This allows you to be your true self and lowers the added pressure of trying to create an idealized version of yourself.


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Platonic relationships are fulfilling and meaningful , you feel less isolated and depressed. The support, love, and care you get brings happiness to you.


You get courage to try new things since someone believes in you.  Platonic partners also help in forming networks and connection which may be beneficial in our careers.

All in all, platonic relationships are an important aspect of a human being's social life therefore they should be embraced and not feared or condemned.