Sex is about more than just the act. There are factors that greatly influence whether your sex life will be great or not so great. You need to understand these factors so as to use them in your favor. Here are things you can start doing to get her to have more sex with you;
Take Up Pillow Talk.
Ladies want to talk to you and they want you to listen. Do not be in a hurry to leave after having sex. Pillow talk does not have to be one or two hours long, twenty minutes is fine, this will go a long way in making her feel appreciated. Keep the topics light and fun, do not try to discuss what you are stressed about.
Don’t Compare Your Sex Life With Porn.
Pornography portrays sex a certain way, which is often not how actual sex is like. You could definitely attempt to enact an adult movie scene but it will probably be stiff and unnatural; this would be a major turn off for both of you. Try to achieve your sexual goals in the most natural way.
Pay attention to what she wants
Do not be a selfish lover. You want her to do everything you want and you do not want to return the favor. She will not be willing to have sex with you often when she feels like she will do all the work. Ask her what she wants and be sure to deliver.
Pick Up On Her Cues
This is something you want her to do a lot. When she tries to initiate sex, do not attempt to turn her down because if you do, she will refrain from doing it. You should be very enthusiastic when she is the first one to initiate, she will continue doing it and that is a good thing for you.
How often you touch her greatly influences how your sex life will be. You do not want her to think that you only touch her when you want to have sex. This will be a turn off for her. Therefore, touch her often; hold her hand as you watch television, rub her kneck when she feels tensed up and hugs her as you leave for work. The results will speak for themselves.
Have a good attitude
Women want you to be enthusiastic about your sexual experiences. They are more likely to respond with the same attitude you have. If you make it boring and it starts feeling like a chore, she will be bored too. You absolutely want to avoid this, so keep it lively and fun to keep her interested.