Coping as a single mother

• Take it one day at time, as much as you may be clueless on what tomorrow will bring. Try and think of what today will be like, and take it slowly.

• Spare time for your baby and know when you need to be available for him. If he wants to see you in school or at home, be available. Set time for dinner together.

• Stay in control of the household. You need to know when to be tough, and when to praise your child. However, it is also good to know when to be soft with him.

• Build a community of family and friends around you; they don’t have to be single mothers like you. This will enable you know who you can depend on when you need help or advice on parenting.

• Do not vent your anger on the child, as he may develop a rebellious attitude towards you.

• Lastly, take good care of yourself. As much as taking care of the baby takes up most of your energy, don’t forget to look after yourself as this will boost your self-esteem, especially from the compliments that will be sure to come your way.