“It’s Very Immature and Inappropriate”: Wixx Mangutha on Questions About Children
Visual storyteller Wixx Mangutha recently spoke out on social media about a topic many public figures face: intrusive questions regarding family planning. The couple, who had just celebrated their seventh anniversary, have often been asked when they plan to have children, a question Wixx says has become “immature and inappropriate.”
In her stories, she shared:
“Before we start… my partner and I have decided that this new year we’ll not be answering any questions about kids… It’s very immature and inappropriate and really not anyone’s business when we plan to have children. In the past, I’ve been answering politely… moving forward, when anyone asks… I’ll be blocking them… Pttthhhoooo! That said… back to great vibes.”
Wixx’s candid message struck a chord with many, including public figure Chiki Kuruka, who voiced her support on social media:
“I’m so glad she spoke up. I also got tired of replying to these questions. The list goes ON as to why this shouldn’t be asked in a public forum by a stranger. I know many folks ask in good faith. Not all do, though. I’ve had many comments by women and men telling Bien to find a woman who will produce children for him. In the same way our mothers should be off the table, so should our wombs. Unless we ourselves open up the forum for conversation. “
This exchange highlights a growing conversation about boundaries, privacy, and respect for personal decisions—especially when it comes to family planning. Questions about having children may seem harmless to some, but they often carry societal pressure, judgment, and assumptions. For public figures, these questions are compounded by the scrutiny of social media audiences, where opinions are freely shared and often unsolicited.
Experts in psychology and social behavior note that invasive questioning about personal life choices, such as when or whether to have children, can contribute to stress, anxiety, and even relationship tension. By taking a firm stance, Wixx Mangutha is not just protecting her personal space, she is modeling a broader message about consent in conversations surrounding personal matters.
Social media has made private life increasingly public, and many users feel entitled to comment on or inquire about deeply personal topics. Wixx’s response is a reminder that individuals, regardless of their public profile, have the right to set boundaries and choose what they share. As she stated, maintaining privacy is not only about personal comfort but also about reclaiming agency over one’s own life.
For many, her message is empowering. It encourages a culture of respect, where questions about family planning are no longer assumed to be acceptable, and where people are reminded that some aspects of life are private, regardless of how public a figure may be.
In an age where oversharing is common and curiosity can often overshadow courtesy, Wixx Mangutha’s bold stand serves as a powerful example: boundaries are not only acceptable, they are necessary.
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