When a child is born, he or she brings joy into the family. A lot of love and care is expressed when raising an infant. Once the child begins to grow and advancing to the various levels of independence, the relationship between the 'child' and the parents experiences changes.
Differences emerge and problems are also bound to arise. There's nothing abnormal with this. However, the problems shouldn't be an excuse to bring rifts into a family. Taking advantage of the problems in order to better the relationship is a better idea.
The desire to always have a better relationship with your parents can be realized through;
Considering everything that your parents have done for you will help you appreciate them more. It will create room for compromise and acts of appreciation. Everyone, parents more-so, are happy when they feel appreciated.
Taking their Perspective
This is a major cause of disagreements. Our parents grew up in a different generation with different norms which are bound to clash with current trends. Empathizing with their position and getting to understand their reasoning will also create room for compromise and desire to improve the relationship.
Be the first to address an issue when it arises. Parents might decide to remain quiet during difficult times, but your initiative may just be one that shines light in times of darkness.
Be courteous towards your parents at all times. Use respectful language towards them even during a misunderstanding. An impression towards them that you respect them at all times may also make them more considerate.
Being open and honest
The willingness to speak to your parents and always speaking the truth helps maintain a healthy relationship by building trust.
Being logical and practical when expressing yourself to your parents will leave a positive impression on them. They'll match your maturity and treat you accordingly.