Parents Need to Teach Emotional Maturity and Respect for Rejection

In a recent case in Nairobi, a young woman was attacked with acid in a violent act allegedly linked to a failed relationship.

While the incident is deeply disturbing, it raises a bigger question: how are we raising young people to understand boundaries, respect, and emotional control in relationships?

Violence does not begin with the act itself. It often begins much earlier, in the lessons children learn or do not learn about love and relationships. Many young people today are left to figure this out on their own, learning from social media, peers, and media rather than from guided conversations at home.

Without proper guidance, love can be misunderstood. Some young people begin to see jealousy as care, control as affection, and persistence as commitment. These beliefs, if unchecked, can shape how they respond to rejection or conflict, sometimes with harmful consequences.

Many parents avoid conversations about relationships, believing their children are too young or that the topic is uncomfortable. However, silence does not protect children. Instead, it leaves them to navigate emotions and situations they may not fully understand, increasing the risk of unhealthy relationship patterns.

Children need to learn early that healthy relationships are built on respect, boundaries, and emotional safety. These lessons are not taught in a single conversation, but through ongoing guidance and the example set at home. When parents communicate openly and model respect, children are more likely to carry these values into their own relationships.

Ultimately, stories like this should prompt reflection, not just on what went wrong, but on what can be done differently. Because preventing such tragedies begins long before they happen at home, in the conversations we choose to have, and in the values we pass on.

Love should never come at the cost of safety, and raising children who understand this is one of the most important responsibilities parents carry.

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