President Ruto’s Paternal Mandate: A Father Figure’s Tough Love for Men

In the cut and thrust of Kenyan governance, President William Ruto often transcends the role of head of state to assume a mantle deeply embedded in the nation’s psyche: that of the father of the country.

It is in this paternal capacity that he recently offered a dose of unvarnished, no-nonsense advice, framing his pronouncements not as political directives but as essential life lessons for the country’s young men.

His words, delivered with a father’s expectation and concern, underscore a central theme: the urgency of commitment and responsibility.

The President’s message, which quickly resonated with the nation, serves as a clear call to action, establishing him as a mentor challenging the contemporary definitions of Kenyan manhood. He is teaching lessons of stability, discipline, and societal contribution.

Here are the lessons the president delivered:

Call to commitment and stability

The President’s first point was a firm push toward structural maturity and building a life foundation:

“To men who are above 25 years, get married.”

The President’s instruction for men over 25 to get married is a direct challenge to the crisis of single parenting, which disproportionately affects mothers and introduces systemic instability into families.

He frames committed marriage as a pragmatic lesson that requires men to move past “individual freedom” and accept the foundational responsibility of a family unit. This stability is presented as a prerequisite for broader societal and economic maturity.

By fostering two-parent homes, the directive aims to ensure shared financial and emotional burdens, thus mitigating the economic hardship and vulnerability often experienced by single mothers and contributing to more functional and resilient families across the nation.

Building accountability to counter GBV

By emphasising anchoring oneself and taking on a legacy of responsibility, the President implicitly addresses the root causes of Gender-Based Violence (GBV).

True masculinity, he teaches, is not about fleeting pleasures or unaccountable individualism, but about commitment and being a pillar of stability. Environments where men prioritise self-exploration over dedication can often perpetuate power imbalances that lead to violence.

The push for a dedicated partnership is, therefore, a call for accountability and respect within the home, aiming to shift the culture towards one where responsible conduct and the sustained welfare of the family unit are prioritised over the destructive behaviours associated with irresponsibility and instability.

Conclusively…

In delivering these two interconnected points, President Ruto has articulated a philosophy of manhood that is rooted in tradition yet speaks to modern challenges:

• Be a builder, not a wanderer: Settle down and contribute to the nation’s social foundation (family).

• Be responsible: Focus your time and money on building value.

By addressing the country’s men in this manner, the President ensures that his leadership extends beyond policy and infrastructure.

He positions himself as a moral and social guide, challenging an entire generation to embrace the maturity and dedication necessary to steer not just their personal lives, but the country itself, toward a continued future.

For the men, it is a piece of tough love from a figure who expects them to evolve from young boys to responsible fathers and pillars of the community.